Tuesday 8 April 2014

A Tale Of Tess, Retold.

Our good friend, Ida, at "Reflex Reactions", put up a touching, tender, emotive story about her beloved dog, Ashton.  The story in question, if you haven't read it, can be found here : 26 Greatest loves of my life - Let's call him...Dog  Her story impacted Penny and I so much.  It inspired me to share and archived posting from May 28, 2009.  

A Tale of Tess.

You hear remarkable tales about the bravery, the sheer determination of our pets, indeed, what I prefer to call, unconditional, non-judgemental family members.  This is one such tale.  A tale of Tess.

It was the summer of 1986.  The World's Fair, Expo '86, was in full swing in downtown Vancouver.  Every night brought a spectacular fireworks display.  A visual and audio delight, for most.  From our apartment window, my wife and I could see the distant flashes and glows of the pyrotechnics extravaganza.

One night, we decided that it would be fun to witness the fireworks display from the very heart of all the activity.  So off we went in the car, along with Tess, our faithful, loving dog. Block after city block, we travelled.  Busy roads, plenty of traffic, but we knew how to get to our final destination of False Creek.  We both knew our way around Vancouver very well.
  
Upon our arrival, we proceeded to find a good vantage point to enjoy the evening of fireworks.  All was well for the first few minutes.  We marvelled at the sights and sounds. Then came a very loud boom and flash.  Tess panicked and wriggled her way out of her collar.  We stood there stunned as Tess fled in terror.  Now all we had was her lead still attached to her collar.

We called her name, "Tess! Tess!", all to no avail.  With our voices drowned out by the boom of the fireworks, a sense of hysteria, a real concern for her welfare, began to sink into our thinking process.  What are we going to do?  For ages we searched.  Then the awful reality hit us hard, we must go home, without our beloved dog.

The next day we went back to False Creek and put up several posters with a description of Tess and a contact number.  A few days later, we received a call from a lady who said that a dog fitting the description in the poster, had slept overnight on her porch with her cat. However, the next morning, the dog had left.  Well, this was a glimmer of hope.  Maybe it was Tess.  Maybe she was alive.

As best we could, we went about our daily business.  Day upon day passed.  A day became a week.  A week became two.  Thoughts of Tess became more of a fleeting, yet no less painful thought.  I was about to go to work on the nightshift, only enough time to have a pork chop, before heading out the door.  *Scratch, scratch, thump!*  "What was that?"  We both said in unison.  The sound seemed to be coming from the door.  I rushed over, opened the door and Tess collapsed in the hallway.

Before us lay a terribly thin, bedraggled dog.  Barely able to walk, she limped into the living room.  The extremes of emotion experienced at the moment were so profound.  Joy, elation, admiration, love for a dog that had touched us in more ways than we could've ever imagined.   With tears streaming down my face, I hugged Tess and gave her my pork chop.

Block after city block, she must have wandered.  Dazed, hungry, scared, confused.  Yet with sheer determination and that uncanny sense that animals possess, she found her way home. I look back on that very special night and it inspires me.   For if I can show half of the resilience that Tess displayed, I know that I can be a better human.
From: Knight St & E 49th Ave, Vancouver, BC, Canada To: False Creek
The above map shows False Creek (B) to where we lived at 49th Avenue and Knight Street (A).  A distance of about six miles.

Then came the day when we had to make one of the hardest decisions of our lives.  We were moving to England and that meant the dreaded quarantine for dogs.  Tess would have to stay in a kennel for six months to be observed for any potential rabies.  We worried, that if we did this, what sort of a dog would she be after the six months.   Reluctantly, sadly, painfully we gave up Tess to a wonderful couple who we knew would provide her with plenty of love.  That was late September 1987, and to this very day, I recall how heartbreaking it was when we drove away from her new home.   Her new life was beginning. Our new life was beginning.

Whilst writing this blog, I had to stop several times.  The tears  welled up.  As I wrote this, I experience all those emotions  that happened so many years ago.   As I wrote this, I was thinking about the final paragraph and how I would phrase it.  Last year I was in Vancouver and found out what became of Tess.  That couple loved and adored her, that I was assured.

  
One day Tess got out of their garden.  Poor Tess was run over, her life, a life that brought so much pleasure to others, was ended by an oncoming train.  I was devastated for all concerned.  Upon hearing the news, I visualised Tess in my mind.  I thought of a family member whose love, her eagerness to please, touched so many hearts.   A tale of Tess, never forgotten, always loved.

My wife with Tess when we moved to our home in Langley, British Columbia.

150 comments:

  1. I've always had a great love for dogs and they will give up their lives saving you if they had the chance. Tess was very much loved and that's why she never gave up finding her own way home. She could have ended up anywhere Gary but she knew she had a special owner to get back too.

    When you look back, it's tears of love, fun and laughter and those are the memories you want to keep forever. I'm sorry you lost her that way, but at least she was treated right when she was alive by those who cared. I LOVE dogs.

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    1. Hi Rum-Punch Drunk,

      Your great love of dogs resonates in your most thoughtful comment, my good friend. Tess' senses knew that the love she had would direct her home. You are so right.

      Reflective memories of happiness, sadness and inspiration. We took comfort in knowing we left her with a family who loved her so much as she loved all who came in contact with her.

      My kind friend, I hope you are starting to feel better.

      Gary

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  2. Terrible she never made it to England. We had dogs growing up and they were as much family as any human.

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    1. Hi Alex,

      It was a heart-wrenching decision, my good friend. Dogs, cherished family members. Quite right, Alex.

      Gary

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  3. Would that all the humans in our lives could be as devoted and unswerving in their connection to us. I've had several that I've cherished and lost, either to age or to accidents. When they leave there's always a memory of them I hold in my heart. It seems that Tess has left a very large and important memory in yours.

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    1. Hi Lee,

      Humans could most certainly learn lessons of sincere love towards other humans by listening to the lessons that animals teach. We treasure their loving gifts in our hearts. You have so profoundly noted that in your thoughtful comment. Tess taught me many a lesson. Lessons I cherish.

      Thank you, dear lady.

      Gary

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  4. Tess was indeed a brave dog. She showed tremendous resilience when she made it to your home after weeks. I can feel your loss and pain.

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    1. Hi Rachna,

      A brave, determined dog that has etched such memories of wonder in my heart and soul. I thank you for sensing the loss and pain.

      A peaceful week to you, dear Rachna.

      Gary

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  5. She is beautiful and just look at that smile! It's a blow to your heart when you lose a pet. They are such a part of your family.

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    1. Hi Mina,

      A beautiful smile, indeed :) You know how much a vital family member a beloved animal can be.

      Thank you, dear Mina.

      Gary

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  6. Hi Gary - I read Ida's story and she's telling her loves so wonderful well through the A-Z. What an amazing dog Tess was .. and what a truly incredible story .. I understand your 'horreur' at having to give Tess up, so you could move to England ... I gave up my dog too - and cried buckets ... still do - so my eyes are welling as they so easily tend to ..

    Wonderful story - just so sad she had to go that way .. thanks for telling us .. hugs and cheers Hilary

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    1. Hi Hilary,

      Ida's story was such warm, emotive posting. An inspiring story about an amazing dog. This is what makes us truly appreciate the love they share with us. And the thoughts of giving up your beloved dog makes me well up and proves just how much animals can truly mean to us.

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I appreciate all the sharing via the comments.

      Hugs and have a happy week,

      Gary

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  7. That's amazing Tess found her way home. It breaks my heart to hear she got out and was hit by a train. My best friend moved to Hawaii and had to leave her cats with someone for a couple months. One got out and got hit, and I know that crushed her.

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    1. Hi Diane,

      I always marvel at the acts of sheer determination that make up the personalities of our beloved animal friends. A sad ending to a beautiful dog. Very sad to read about the loss of your friend's cats. Such terrible news to have found out after she moved to Hawaii.

      Thank you, dear Diane.

      Gary

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  8. Oh Gary, what a wonderful tale!
    Thanks for sharing this...
    Tess was indeed very special.
    Those pictures say it all!

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    1. Hi Michelle,

      It was something I felt needed to be shared.
      Tess was a special dog and truly symbolic of the lessons our animal friends try to share with us humans.
      The pictures tell a story of love and devotion.

      Thank you, dear Michelle.

      Gary

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  9. I am so sorry about how Tess's life ended, but she gave a great amount of love and happiness to your family and the family she ended up with for many years. Whenever one of my animal companions pass away, many times in horrible circumstances, I remind myself of this.

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    1. Hi Medeia,

      The unconditional love of Tess was a profound balance to it all. Indeed, we cherish those magical moments we have with them. You say it well.

      Thank you, dear Medeia.

      Gary

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  10. So heartbreaking but beautiful. Tess's determination was incredible, not a fair ending at all..........makes me terribly sad

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    1. Hi Caren,

      You know of such wonders in regards to our beloved animal friends. Your love of dogs and cats is there for all to see on your wonderful blog. A beautiful dog with such a sad demise. It does seems terribly unfair.

      Thank you, dear Caren.

      Gary

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  11. That was one very determined dog! How amazing that Tess found her way home. No one ever forgets such a dog.

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    1. Hi Susan,

      A dog of dogged determination. I still marvel at the journey Tess must of undertaken to get home. Always loved and never forgotten.

      Thank you, dear Susan.

      Gary

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  12. Dear Gary,
    Tess will always live in your hearts and in the hearts of those who loved her so much. Her kind, gentle spirit will never die.
    I remember each and every dog I had and loved because they ARE family members. My first dog was a German Shepherd called Little. She was like a sister to me. My father brought her home when I was five years old. She always protected us.
    I would love to have a dog now. I already told you the main reason why we don't have one, but hopefully we will work things out.
    Thank you for sharing Tess's story.
    Hugs and loving thoughts to you,
    Julia

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    1. Hi Julia,

      Your gentle thoughts are truly embraced.

      Yes, your are so correct. Our beloved animals are indeed family members. Little was your sister and you both loved each other. With the bravery of a dog, she protected your family.

      I know how much you would love to have a dog, dear Julia. Let's hope that something wonderful happens and you will have a dog to love.

      I felt the need to share this story, based on what Ida had wrote. This is hopeful synchronicity.

      Hugs and loving wishes to you, dear Julia.

      Gary

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  13. I am so sorry to hear about Tess. She sounded like a great dog to you guys.

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    1. Hi Lady Lilith,

      I thank you for your kind comment. She was a loving dog who touched our hearts in so many ways.

      Bless you, dear Lady Lilith.

      Gary

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  14. This brought tears to my eyes. Tess sounded remarkable, and though I'm sorry for her untimely end, I think it's wonderful that she was a blessing to two families.

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    1. Hi Lynda,

      Bless you, my kind friend. Tess was remarkable and yes, she blessed the lives of two families. Despite her tragic end, she will be forever loved by so many.

      Thank you, dear Lynda.

      Gary

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  15. It is wonderful that our furry friends can still affect us even years later. Like family, we never stop missing them.

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    1. Hi Birdie,

      You know of the magical impact our furry friends have on our lives. We cherish the memories of our animal friends, friends within a loving family.

      Thank you, dear Birdie.

      Gary

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  16. Oh Gary. Tears here. And on Ida's blog too. As I said there - they wind their paws deep into our heart-strings and take a piece of us with them when they leave. And we are still richer for knowing them.
    Hugs.

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    1. Hi Sue,

      Your words here and on Ida's profound posting, resonates with the loving truth. They enrich our lives and we are grateful.

      Thank you, dear Sue.

      Gary

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  17. Hi Gary, Firstly thanks for sharing Ashton's story, it came as quite a surprise I had to sleep on it, the following thoughts came to me. I don't know if they are real or imagined.
    Clearly Tess wanted her tale retold too. Once she realised she had run from her safety and felt your heartbreak, she made her very determined journey home. Remember the 'good old days' when dogs only ate scraps and ran around the neighbourhood sharing their love with everyone. Her journey may have been easier if things were different. At least we have microchips now.
    Giving away dogs is hard to do, for humans, all the dogs I've met seem to relish the chance to love and be loved by someone new. They have perfect timing, always. When it's time to go it's because someone needs them more than you did.
    I've seen cats, birds and dogs get run over, it's like a magnet is pulling them, bang and there gone, it's so very sad, for humans... I think the animals do it to avoid getting sick, old, lots of painful visits to the vet and the pit (anyone who has had a pet die at a vet knows what the pit is).
    One last note: if anyone is thinking of adopting a new dog but doesn't know where they'll be in the next 15 or so years adopt an old dog... there are plenty that need a new home, for all sorts of reasons, wishing they lived longer is easier than wishing you didn't have to give them away, for humans :) much love to you Gary and co.

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    1. Hi Ida,

      My pleasure, dear friend. My honour to share the story of your beloved Ashton. Your thoughts in sleep, I believe, make total sense.

      The first time I told this story, few read it. Tess must of wanted me to bring her story to awareness again. You were the catalyst in it all. A force for the good, the hopeful, the loving. The good old days when dogs could roam in safety amongst a community of love and food.

      A very difficult decision to leave Tess behind. We weighed up the options and realised that her love could now be shared with a new family in a new adventure.

      There maybe something in what you note about animals be drawn to an ending instead of having their lives continue on in pain they don't want us to witness.

      Your last note is vitally important. Older dogs have much love to give and it hurts me to see them neglected. They need a loving family home just like any other dog. I might add that their is also a stigma attached to black dogs. That is so sad.

      Much love and admiration your way, dear Ida. Thank you for such a thoughtful, detailed comment. It only took me six days to eventually reply. Yikes.

      Gary

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    2. I didn't know about black dogs... that makes me sad but brings me one step closer to the perfect dog for us - thanks Gary

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    3. Hi Ida,

      Thanks for the second comment. There are a number of dog shelters who often make note that it's not uncommon to have a black dog overlooked.

      This is a typical link that notes their plight.

      http://www.blackpearldogs.com/

      Gary

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  18. Hello Gary,

    What a very touching account you give here of the very mixed emotions which come from owning and loving a pet. They do touch one's very soul and because of that they can truly make one experience the highs and lows of Life itself.

    Still, it is better in our view to experience such emotional attachments since they add a richness to Life like no other. And, in the process, one trusts that the animals themselves gain in many ways too.

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    1. Hi Jane and Lance,

      Oh yes, the love of our animal friends enrich our lives. I consider them to be an integral part of my life. A comfort in those times of solitude.

      The love is a shared situation that never ceases to amaze me. Many a human could learn lessons from our animal friends.

      Thank you both for such a thoughtful comment.

      Gary

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  19. Such devotion and instinct to return to loving humans, is something that must be inbreed into certain dogs. I love this touching story. Fireworks that brings out the ooo's and ahhh's in humans, seems to bring out the "flight" in dogs. Cody used to be a basket case on our 4th of July but now our city has banned fireworks and Cody says "Amen to that."

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    1. Hi Manzanita,

      The determination of Tess certainly taught me lessons in never giving up. Some dogs, especially the smaller, nervy breeds, really get freaked out by fireworks. Poor Penny becomes a wreck during such times. Thank heavens your city banned fireworks in your city. Cody can rest easy.

      Thank you, dear lady.

      Gary

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  20. This is so sad, I have tears threatening to fall. First the scare of losing Tess from fireworks noise, then having to give her up, then she escapes her yard and gets run over.
    We have radio and TV warnings here every New Years Eve about locking up pets to keep them safe while the fireworks are on. People are advised to NOT take their pets along to displays.

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    1. Hi River,

      Sad, with moments of joy. Lessons were learnt.

      Penny is always kept company whenever the fireworks are set off during the celebration times of the year. The idiots insist on setting off fireworks out in the street instead of going to a controlled public display. Each Halloween time, Penny puts up a post warning about the impact fireworks have on animals. We would never take a dog to a display again. Even from a distance, we were too close with Tess. Thank you, dear River.

      Gary

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  21. Animals are like family, sorry your dog didn't make it here to England, Lovely write Gary.

    Yvonne.

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    1. Hi Yvonne,

      Animals are cherished family members, for sure. Of course, those British quarantine rules were such a dilemma. Six months seemed way too long. Thank you, dear Yvonne.

      Gary

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  22. I can relate so much to this story as my first dog, who I loved so very much, got away and chased a squirrel on to the railroad tracks and was hit by a train. It was a Tuesday night and I will never forget that feeling as it was the first time in my life that my heart was broken.

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    1. Hi Arleen,

      I'm so very sorry you have to experience such a tragic end to your first dog's life. I truly sense your pain. Your love for that wonderful dog comes out in your comment. Take care, dear Arleen.

      Gary

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  23. Oh, this made me get teary-eyed. I can't imagine how hard it was to say goodbye to her. What a beautiful girl she was.

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    1. Hi Julie,

      This story does bring up a tear or two. It was one of the most difficult decisions in my life to give up our loving dog. She was beautiful and shall always stay that way in my heart. Thank you, dear Julie.

      Gary

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  24. Awww, this was bittersweet. Made me miss my first dog, Popcorn, who was 18 when we had to put him to sleep. Losing him was awful. I have three cats now (one short of being a Crazy Cat Lady) and love them all. Pets are wonderful; if only they could live longer...

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    1. Hi Ms. CrankyPants,

      Popcorn had a long, loving life with you. And after such a long time, Popcorn, so much meaning to your life, was put to sleep. It's such a difficult time. Your memories will resonate with the love you shared. I reckon you will get another cat! :) Indeed, if only our loving animal friends could live longer. It seems so unfair. Thank you, dear lady.

      Gary

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  25. How sad. I can't blame you for not wanting to do the 6 month quarantine. That just seems cruel. I'm pretty certain dogs are angels roaming the earth. Love my furry friends, even if I do give them thunder...especially the guy who likes to pee on my couch when the neighbor's dog is in heat.

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    1. Hi Elizabeth,

      The six months quarantine was, I believe, to be a cruel thing to do to a poor, confused animal. Dogs are angels. How very true. Then they show us how much they care by piddling on the couch.

      Thank you, dear Elizabeth.

      Gary

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  26. Beautiful, Heartfelt story, Gary.

    Anything about animals captures my whole HEART <3

    Lovely photos, dear. XXXXXXXXXX

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    1. Hi Kim,

      Thank you, dear lady.

      You know of the love of our animal friends. It shows in your comment.

      Glad you liked the photos :)

      Hugs,

      Gary :) xx

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  27. What a heartbreaking story.

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    1. Hi Delores,

      A heartbreaking story and somehow an inspiring story of a dog's love for humans. Thank you, dear Delores.

      Gary

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  28. Trying to see through the tears to type this one... Tess finding her way home...amazing, inspirational, a testimonial to the devotion of dogs. Made my heart swell.

    Choosing to leave her behind with a loving family. Oh, the heartbreak. I cannot imagine. And to find out that she was loved. Gratifying certainly. But, how she died... and the tears begin anew.

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    1. Hi Robin,

      Bless you, dear Robin. Another story about the unconditional love and determination of our devoted animal friends.

      It was a most heart breaking decision to leave her behind. We knew the family she would live with would embrace a shared love. A sad end to a wonderful dog. Thank you, my dear friend. You are a marvel.

      Gary

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  29. Made her way back no matter what, knew she had a great home indeed. The 6 month quarantine is ridiculous, had to be hard indeed

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    1. Hi Pat,

      No matter what, she came back. Such amazing commitment. The six months quarantine was way too much. Thank you, Pat.

      Gary

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  30. I momentarily got lost when I arrived. You've got a new header! Very nice.

    It's so hard to leave behind a loved one. We don't have pets, but I'll never forget the experience when we left all our family behind and traveled to the other side of the country to live in NYC. It was almost like a death.

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    1. Hi Crystal,

      Glad you liked my new header. The wee folks in my garden also thank you.

      Parting for another part of the country causes such longing for those we have left behind. I understand what you mean. I'm in England with my son and Penny. The rest of my family is in Canada.

      Gary

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  31. Wow, Gary, what a wonderful, sad story. Tess was a beautiful dog.

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    1. Hi Melissa,

      Thank you and yes, Tess was a beautiful dog. Another dog that displayed the love that our animal friends want to share with us. Thank you, Melissa.

      Gary

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  32. Wonderful story Gary, but so very sad too. I know what it's like having to part with a dog or dogs when you change countries. We brought one GSD to Canada but the other was not well and we decided to put her down. I cried buckets. You let Penny read these stories, hmmm.

    I would also say I always tried to keep my dogs away from fireworks. Every time they are released in this area I worry about not only the pets, but all the wild animals in the are who must be frightened witless.

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    1. Hi Jo,

      You know of the heartache of leaving a dog behind when you moved countries. Such emotional turmoil. I still cry over lost furry friends. Penny did not read this story.

      Since that time when we didn't think about the fireworks have such a traumatic impact on a dog, we keep Penny occupied whenever the idiots set off fireworks outside our house. Why they don't go to controlled public displays is beyond me. Thank you, Jo.

      Gary

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  33. That was sad and wonderful. And sad. And teary. I think Tess was determined to get home no matter what. Says a lot about how she felt about her family.

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    1. Hi Joylene,

      A story of extreme emotions. Her driving force was most assuredly her determination to get back to her loving home. Thank you, dear Joylene.

      Gary

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  34. I'm so sorry, Gary. What a wonderful tribute to Tess. We lost our last dog only 2 years ago and the memory of losing her still haunts me at night. I don't think we ever truly heal. Thank you for sharing.

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    1. Hi I.B. Nosey,

      Thank you for your kind words, my friend. Two years on and the loss of your beloved dog still touches your heart. We never really get over the loss of an animal friend. They have such a profound impact.

      Gary

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  35. The ups and downs of owning pets can be tough . . . .

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    1. Hi Rob,

      Such emotional highs and lows, my good friend.

      Have a great week, Mr. R.

      Gary

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  36. This served as a reminder that our pets are not to be taken lightly. They are our fur friends. We depend on them just as much, or more than they us. Thanks for the story.

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    1. Hi DAVID,

      Absolutely, good sir. Our fur friends are valued loving family members. We both understand how much they mean to us and us to them. Thank you.

      Gary

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  37. Hi Gary. I'm sure that if Sir Tom were here he would be dabbing his eyes with the silk handkerchief from his top pocket. Myself, I'm made of stronger stuff. What's that you say? Oh, just some dust in my eye.....
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    1. Hi Barry,

      Sir Tom is really a lovable, tender guy at heart. Awe and bless you, good sir.

      Gary

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  38. Hi Gary,

    Tess touched so many people's lives and continues to do so. Her tale is nothing short of amazing. I love that she was able to find her way home (and I'll bet that pork chop was the best meal she ever had!) I'm so sorry to know she's passed.

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    1. Hi Elsie,

      Tess, like so many animals, touches the lives of those who know them. Even in the fond memories. I'm sure she loved that pork chop. A tragic end to a wonderful dog. Thank you for commenting, Elsie.

      Gary

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  39. So hard to lose a pet. This was a bittersweet story, but you told it well.

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    1. Hi loverofwords,

      The pain of losing a beloved animal family member still lingers. Bittersweet most certainly describes the story. Thank you for your kind comment.

      Gary

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  40. I hope Penny and your lovely wife cheered you up. I guess Tess was looking for you....

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    1. Hi Eve,

      Penny has kept me going. My lovely wife, sadly, is now my ex wife. We both share our love of the memory of Tess. My ex worked on this post with me.

      A lovely week to you, dear Eve.

      Gary

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  41. She found her way home. Aren't animals extraordinary?

    Heartbreaking end to a precious life.

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    1. Hi Wendy,

      Over two weeks later, through the traffic and confusion of a big city, she found her way home. We both understand how extraordinary our beloved animal friends are.

      A precious life so sadly ended.

      Hope you had a very nice weekend, dear Wendy.

      Gary :)

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  42. The Tale of Tess made my cry. I remember the first pet I had as an adult. A beautiful little mutt I called Cherokee, he was so obedient and friendly, but I too had to leave one area and move to another rather suddenly and by bus. Cherokee had to be left behind. Not long after I was told he had been shot - the same thing his new keeper, my ex, wanted to do to me. It was Cherokee's love that kept me sane during that horrid time, but to have him pay that price has always weighed heavy! They are such a special and heaven sent love - we are blessed by their existence!

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    1. Hi Yolanda,

      That is a very heavy story you have shared, dear Yolanda. Such an awful decision to leave Cherokee behind. What was done to Cherokee is just plain evil. You kept your sanity together thanks to the love of your beloved dog, Cherokee. You and I know the treasures that are our beloved animal friends.

      Thank you for opening up about this, Yolanda. Remember, you are a special lady.

      Have a peaceful week ahead.

      Gary

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  43. Sad about Tess. Our pets mean so much to all of us. One nice thing is that she proved her love and devotion to you, and so did you telling her story :)
    Shells–Tales–Sails

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    1. Hi Sharon,

      Sad and yet the joy she brought is what I hold in my heart. Her determination has been a key factor in me being more determined in life. Thank you for your kind comment, Sharon.

      Gary :)

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  44. Thank you for such a touching, emotional post. Tess was an amazing dog! We have our little Bonaparte who brings us great joy. We lost our Laydi three years ago and still feel the love she engendered in our family. Recently we lost a dear friends' dog, Reuben. This hit us hard for a number of reasons, first, our friends, Brad and Nancy lost their other dog Frank in April of 2012. Reuben and Bonaparte became even closer after that and when Nancy had a stroke last year we kept Reuben for three months. Reuben was central to Nancy's recovery and both she and Brad were extremely attached to him. A few months ago he got out of their fenced yard and went missing. Five hours later, after much searching by all of us, my husband and I started home. My husband decided to try one more street, and we found Reuben. He looked like he'd just laid down in the middle of the road and gone to sleep. We took him home and we all four cried together. Bonaparte missed him for weeks, always searching for Reuben... I've never had to deal with a loss of a dog being hit by a car (who didn't even stop and call the number on Reuben's tag!) before and it was traumatic. I can feel what it meant to you to find out Tess's fate...

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    1. Hi Lisa,

      My dear friend, what a touching, emotive comment you have shared. A most notable point is just how therapeutic, if that's the right word, a beloved dog can be in our lives. That story of Reuben has touched my heart. You know of the love your family shared with Laydi. And Bonaparte brings such loving magic into your world. Thank you for such a detailed, thought provoking comment, dear Lisa.

      Gary

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  45. I was already emotional after visiting Alex's blog, and now tears are streaming down my face. It must have been heart-rending for you to leave Tess behind, and her story is so sad, yet how amazing that she managed to find her way home after the fireworks.
    Our labrador, Suzy, is now 14 and I awake each morning hoping that this won't be the day when I have to make a phone call ...
    I listen to Radio 5Live - sorry I missed you. It's impossible to catch everything.
    It's good to meet you and thank you for following my blog.

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    1. Hi Fanny,

      That was so thoughtful of our amazing friend, Alex, to make note of you on his blog. I still think back in amazement as to how Tess found her way home.

      I do so understand what you mean about your Suzy. We cherish the moments we have left with our loving animals. Our dog, Penny, will be 14 in October and I get those thoughts of that day I can barely think about.

      I was interviewed by Rhod Sharp on "Up All Night". It was a few years ago.

      Delighted to me you and thank you, likewise, for linking into our site :)

      Have a good week.

      Gary :)

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  46. Awe Tess sounds like a wonderful dog. It's wonderful to think that she touched people's lives, but I do find it sad that she died so tragically.

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    1. Hi Misha,

      A wonderful dog, indeed. She touched the lives of everybody who got to know her. A sad end to a loving dog.

      I hope you are okay, Misha.

      Gary

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  47. This story brought tears to my eyes, too. Back in 1985 I had to find a new home for my wonderful pug, Buster, for almost the same reason. I was traveling to France and could not take Buster along. I was never able to follow up and see how he was doing because he was an older dog and I was afraid what I would find out. And you know, giving that dog to new owners is probably the one thing I did in my lifetime I feel most guilty about.

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    1. Hi Patricia,

      That's very sad about your wonderful dog, Buster.. It is such a difficult decision. Thankfully, in our case, the family we gave Tess to had asked us if they could have her. They were originally from England and knew just how traumatic the quarantine can be for animals. Six months is an eternity is a dog's life.

      Wishing you a happy week ahead.

      Gary

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  48. The story of Tess is so emotional and poignant.

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    1. Hi Damyanti,

      You summed it up nicely. Tess could of been any dog.

      Hope you had a peaceful Sunday, dear Damyanti.

      Gary

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  49. Oh no! Poor Tess. What a sweet and wonderful dog and what an awful end to her life. When our son and daughter in law moved to Australia there little dog (Rosie) came to live with us. We loved that little girl so much it still hurts to think about the day she died. With Rosie, it was just old age so that was a blessing, but we still miss her every day.

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    1. Hi Barbara,

      Tess had a life amongst loving humans. Yet such a sad ending to a beautiful dog. Rosie and such a wonderful impact she had on your life. When your son and daughter in law moved to Australia that must of been heart breaking to give Rosie up. Still, they could find comfort in knowing how much you would love Rose. Bless Rosie and bless you.

      Gary

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  50. I'm always amazed at the sense of direction and the tenacity of dogs to find their way back to their owners. Great, sad, heartbreaking yet wonderful story.
    Tina @ Life is Good
    A to Z Team @ Blogging From A to Z April Challenge 2014

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    1. Hi Tina,

      The senses and the resilience of dogs has always amazed me. This was one story amongst a million stories. A tale of so many emotions. Thank you, dear Tina. Hope you have some more relaxed time this week.

      Gary :)

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  51. Great story and so sad and now I am a blubbering fool here over this story. It's okay I think I needed to cry today anyway. I always get too attached to my pets and literally grieved for one pet for about six months. Not constant, but there are so many reminders after they are gone. Tess definitely had a great life!

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    1. Hi Gossip_Grl,

      Let out some tears can be most cleansing. A reminder of all those loving animals who have been in our lives. Tess was loved and she loved everybody she met. Thank you, dear friend.

      Gary :)

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  52. I just sat in silence for a moment after reading this, Gary. I'm so sorry. Your words bring to life Tess' love, courage, and incredible spirit.

    Hugs,
    xoRobyn

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    1. Hi Robyn,

      A silent reflection about the wondrous love our animal friends provide. Tess, the ideals of unconditional love.

      Wishing you a lovely Sunday, dear Robyn.

      Gary :) x

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  53. Tess - what a beautiful name, what an adorable dog, what a heart-wrenching story. I've experienced the same thing (the love and loss of a pet) over 10 times since I was a child. I finally had to stop getting pets...I just couldn't take the heartbreak of losing my sweetie, my baby, my best friend, any more....

    (Sorry if I'm slow commenting on my regular blog-friends' blogs during April. The hop is kicking my butt.)

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    1. Hi Lexa,

      I remember there is a filmed named, "Tess" with Nastassja Kinski. This posting was such an emotive yet inspirational story about the love of a dog. I know what you mean about our beloved animal friends. I look at Penny and well you know the rest...

      No need to apologise, dear Lexa. Heck, I'm struggling trying to be proactive. And of course, I don't even do that blasted A to Z! Make it STOP! :)

      Gary :)

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  54. It breaks my heart to lose a pet. They claim your heart then leave much too soon.

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    1. Hi River Fairchild,

      They leave such a magical mark on our hearts. Thank you, dear lady.

      A restful Sunday to you.

      Gary

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  55. Oh, a sad and lovely story. Robin sent me here. I'm glad she did.

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    1. Hi Liza,

      A story of so many emotions and ideals. I'm very pleased the lovely Robin gave you the thought to visit. Have a lovely Sunday, my dear friend.

      Gary

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  56. We had a shepherd that weighed as much as my wife Jilda. We kept him for many years and when his health failed, we had to put him down.
    We both cried as if we'd lost a child.
    R

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    1. Hi Rick,

      Your comment is testimony to how much our beloved animal friends mean to us. Those who say it's only a dog, just don't get it. Thank you, kind sir.

      Gary

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  57. It's amazing how Tess was able to find her way home, it's easy to see why she loved you all so much and you her. It is hard to let go of such an amazing pet. :)Beautiful story of your wonderful dog.

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    1. Hi Kimberly,

      Even after all these years, that moment when she staggered through into the house is as vivid as then. It was heart wrenching to let her go. A beloved family member. Thank you for your thoughtful words, Kimberly.

      Happy Sunday to you,

      Gary :)

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  58. Gary: I arrived here from Robin's blog. I am your newest follower.

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    1. Hi JJ,

      Very pleased to meet you. I have been to your site, commented and linked into your blog. Robin is a marvel.

      Gary

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  59. Are you kidding??? Holy. I am FLOORED. I can't believe she found her way home. That's just… unreal. What a smart little thing!

    I'm so sad to hear the ending of this story---but the pictures clearly capture beautiful moments. I love these kind of posts, Gary. :)

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    1. Hi Morgan,

      This was a story of a dog's commitment to get back to the loving, safe environment that was her home. The senses of our beloved animals friends is a wonder to behold.

      Sad ending and yet the love that was shared warms my heart. Thank you, dear Morgan.

      Gary :)

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  60. What an epic journey. I'm surprised though that Tess didn't find food and people that were willing to feed her. She must have really been shaken up by the ordeal.

    Lee
    Wrote By Rote

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    1. Hi Lee,

      You are probably right. She was probably so transfixed in getting home that she may not have stopped long enough to receive morsels of food and water from kind people.

      Have a peaceful Sunday, good sir.

      Gary

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  61. Touching story well told. The only down side to dogs is eventually you have to let them go.

    Visiting from Gossip Girl.

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  62. Hi joeh,

    Very nice to meet you. Thank you for your kind thoughts. I know what you mean. Our beloved dog, Penny, is getting close to fourteen years old. I treasure every moment I have with her.

    In kindness,

    Gary

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  63. Aww, that's so awesome that she found her way home after she was lost for so long. Those kinds of stories are amazing.

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    1. Hi Rosey,

      It really gives you sense of wonder as to just how incredible our animal friends truly are. Thank you for you nice comment.

      Gary :)

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  64. Read this while listening to the wonderful relaxing music.

    Awww this is so sad and so loving too. Thank you for sharing Tess's amazing story and memories, Ida.

    And thank you for the music, Gary! Take care
    x

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    1. Hi Old Kitty,

      Glad you were listening to that wonderful relaxing music :)

      A story from so many emotional highs and lows.

      Thank you, Old Kitty :)

      Gary
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  65. Such a beautifully sad story... Tess has touched us all....

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      Thank you for commenting, good sir. Indeed, Tess, an ideal that is representative of the love our animal friends share with us.

      A pleasant Sunday to you.

      Gary :)

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  66. What a wonderful story about your beloved Tess. I understand your feeling of loss, I have gone through the loss of several pets and human loved ones. It is always the same, one loss opens the wounds of all the others and we grieve again. Even though painful, it is the only way we poor humans can heal. Bless you for your love of Tess. I'm sure she still feels your love even now.

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    1. Hi CraveCute,

      Thank you for such thoughtful words. We try to work through the pain, make some sense of it all by celebrating the inspiration that our loved ones, animal and human alike, shared with us. Tess, symbolic of unconditional love shared. A lesson learnt.

      Hope you had a lovely weekend.

      Gary :)

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  67. It's amazing how Tess found her way back to you. I'm so sorry that her life came to such a tragic end. This was beautifully written, Gary.

    Julie

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    1. Hi Julie,

      It always amazes me how much determination our animal friends can show us. Such a sad end to a life that touched so many. I appreciate your kind words, Julie.

      Enjoy the week ahead.

      Gary :)

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  68. An amazing story, an amazing dog Gary. Hope you're enjoying your week!

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      Thank you for that, my kind friend. So far, the week is going well. See you soon, Denise :)

      Gary

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  69. I am so sorry to hear about Tess! She was a dog with lots of spirit and love. I was amazed about her journey home from the fair- and the distance she covered. It sounds like she touched many lives and brought those who knew her a lot of happiness. Thanks for sharing her story with us. :)
    ~Jess

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    1. Hi Jess,

      Thank you for your kind comment, Jess. Spirit and love drove her onwards to get back home. She must have gone through a maze of traffic and city blocks. Remarkable. I was glad to share this story of inspiration and varying emotions. Thank you, dear Jess.

      Gary :)

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  70. Poor, poor Tess.

    Sometimes I find if more people had the kind heart and loyalty of a dog, they'd be better humans.

    Damyanti, Co-host A to Z Challenge April 2014, My Latest post

    Twitter: @AprilA2Z
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    1. Hi Damyanti,

      Dogs have lessons to teach us humans about unconditional, non judgemental love. If only more humans listened to the lessons.

      Oh yay, your latest A to Z post! LOL Thank you, dear lady.

      Gary :)

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  71. Just have to tell you, I love your Weekend Interludes, even if I didn't listen on the weekend! I listened today and it was just what I needed. Posting this here as I can't on the interludes :) Looking forward to next weekend... and please, Gary, don't feel you have to respond to my comments here on your blog. I know you're there and that's all I need! Have a peaceful day!

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    1. Hi Lisa,

      Ah yes, glad you like the weekend interludes after the weekend! :) Of course, I switched off comments so folks could hopefully have some chill out time from it all. A to Z and anybody. I shall not comment back to your very nice comment! :)

      A peaceful day to you, dear Lisa.

      Gary :)

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  72. such a deeply touching story, dear! Tess seems like an amazing animal!
    A cat of mine was run over by a car two years ago just a month after she gave birth to little kittens, so I had to take over the parenting role and raise them myself. Her son Ignatius is still with us.

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    1. Hi Dezmond,

      It certainly had a lot of emotional angles, my good sir. Tess, like so many of our furry friends, was truly amazing. How very sad about your cat. Thankfully, she had those kittens you looked after before her tragic accident.

      Take good care.

      Gary

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  73. wow, that's so sad. I've grown up with dogs, not had one of my own, but I know it's like having your own children. It's never easy when you let them go and hear something terrible has happened to them.

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    1. Hi Tammy,

      A dog, a beloved family member, does seem like having your own child. I know that our dog, Penny, is like a daughter to me and a sister to my son.

      Thank you, dear Tammy.

      Gary

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  74. This is such a touching story. I'm glad you shared it with us. I have a few dogs from my past who remind me of your dear Tess. They lived long and happy lives, giving me so much more than I ever gave them. Thank you for sharing this, Gary.

    M. J. Joachim

    A to Z Challenge Co-Host
    Writing Tips
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    1. Hi M.J.,

      I thought this was an important posting to share again. We both know of the love dogs share with us. The lessons they can teach. You are so right. They give us so much more than we ever give them. Thank you, dear friend.

      Gary

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  75. Oh my goodness. I'm at a loss for words. What a beautiful and tragic story.

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    1. Hi Bish,

      I appreciate you reading the story. Your comment says it all. Thank you, dear Bish.

      Gary

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I do try to comment back to each commenter individually. However, I might have to shorten my replies or give a group thank you. That way, I can spend more time commenting on your blogs. Thank you and peace, my friend.