tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post4499954296235209816..comments2024-03-27T22:57:59.870+00:00Comments on klahanie: Regaining The Clarity.klahaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comBlogger64125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-552391094215187462012-11-08T00:03:43.168+00:002012-11-08T00:03:43.168+00:00Hi Susan,
Thank you very much for commenting on t...Hi Susan,<br /><br />Thank you very much for commenting on this now archived posting. It was inspiring to have Penny get me to think things through and see the positives out of the negatives. At this rate, I might just have the most colourful flowers where I live :) Hard work to be positive and yes, the alternative is a place I do not want to visit again.<br /><br />Thank you, Susan.<br /><br />In kindness and gratitude, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-53629472743127689652012-11-06T16:22:17.599+00:002012-11-06T16:22:17.599+00:00What an encouraging post! When life hands us a tru...What an encouraging post! When life hands us a truckload of crapola, the best thing we can do is use it to fertilize a new flower garden. Ain't easy, but it's definitely worth the effort. Great job.Susan Flett Swiderskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09425315552148200073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-45987527772264927672012-10-28T18:54:23.709+00:002012-10-28T18:54:23.709+00:00Hi River,
It's heartening to read that some p...Hi River,<br /><br />It's heartening to read that some positive aspects came out of your divorce. Sometimes it takes drastic measures to create a more understanding outcome. I hope your former husband continues to make progress with the reflective interaction with his counsellor. <br /><br />Wishing you both a better, happier future.<br /><br />Thank you, River.<br /><br />Kind wishes, your way, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-10886846617639113012012-10-28T18:49:23.395+00:002012-10-28T18:49:23.395+00:00Hi Hilary,
Maintaining that positive focus, that ...Hi Hilary,<br /><br />Maintaining that positive focus, that visualisation of a better life, can seem most daunting. More than ever, we find we must move onto a new life and a fresh start. <br /><br />Your supportive words to us are greatly accepted. May positivity and fulfilment immerse your life.<br /><br />Thank you, Hilary.<br /><br />Gary and yes indeed, Penny the Jack Russell dog and modest internet superstar! :)klahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-76446431795810017432012-10-28T10:09:47.647+00:002012-10-28T10:09:47.647+00:00My second marriage was heading in a very negative ...My second marriage was heading in a very negative direction, so I turned that around, well we both did, by getting divorced and now we are better friends. Even better he is seeing a counsellor on a regular basis and actually listening to what she has to say, as he says, it's just what I tried to tell him for years. so he is getting some help although there is a very long road ahead for him and there are issues I think he will never open up to. Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-56971018689038245052012-10-28T10:01:43.068+00:002012-10-28T10:01:43.068+00:00Hi Gary - so much here for so many .. a great post...Hi Gary - so much here for so many .. a great post with so many heartfelt comments ... out of adversity comes joy - it sounds like your new project is the way forward and I guess will incorporate your move ... life just has a way of letting us know there's a reason for everything .... I just feel you, Tristan and Penny have much to offer us in our worlds - let there be light and peace (most importantly) soon in your world ... many thoughts - HilaryHilary Melton-Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17596532480645510678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-89716101923213147822012-10-28T00:15:32.363+00:002012-10-28T00:15:32.363+00:00Hi lotta joy,
I know, a bit after the awful fact,...Hi lotta joy,<br /><br />I know, a bit after the awful fact, but over here and I don't know how it works there, I would have taken the sick bastard to an industrial tribunal and sued the pants off of him! Then again, I should of done the same thing in regards to my job. Instead, I went on sick leave, never to return. <br /><br />Why do we let the assholes of the world get away with it? I know I did because I was too ill to fight back. I know you are trying to move on from that. I guess, if possible, any action by you now would be anxiety inducing reminder of the hell you went through.<br /><br />You've adapted to your new place and any resentment you felt towards Stud has diminished. A positive outcome from what started as a negative. As for that scum bag boss, maybe he will get what he deserves. And you, maybe somehow, can get some modicum of satisfaction.<br /><br />Sorry, crap response. <br /><br />Try and take care,<br /><br />Gary<br /><br />klahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-33226371257510741352012-10-27T22:21:52.133+00:002012-10-27T22:21:52.133+00:00Darn! You just reminded me of two things. One: ...Darn! You just reminded me of two things. One: The job I ADORED was overtaken by a savagely cruel boss who made my life a living hell. To this day, I still rehash what I should have said, should have done, when he lunged over his desk at me - a woman. But I politely resigned and quietly left, six months before my pension was to kick in. Sometimes I find it nearly impossible to live with what he did to me, and what I didn't do to HIM.<br /><br />TWO: Stud moved me to a strange place with no friends or family, and after a year of resenting him for it, I've adjusted, adapted, and overcome.<br /><br />And guess which one of these I still harbor in my heart. Yep.lotta joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12742978845913126675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-65069140270148865352012-10-27T01:03:37.237+00:002012-10-27T01:03:37.237+00:00Hi Pearl,
Delighted to see your good self. Ah ye...Hi Pearl,<br /><br />Delighted to see your good self. Ah yes, Penny is wise dog, a loving dog and such a good friend to my son and I. <br /><br />For sure, to try and see how you can transform an negative into positive can create such a inspirational revelation. Penny's pawfound pawspective was truly wondrous :)<br /><br />Have a lovely weekend in Minneapolis. And my favourite NFL team are the Minnesota Vikings! :)<br /><br />All the best from Leek, England. Yes, Leek, because I always wanted to live in a town named after an onion.<br /><br />Stay positive and keep smiling, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-43412589357675181722012-10-27T00:57:38.353+00:002012-10-27T00:57:38.353+00:00Hi Kelly,
Glad you enjoyed the dialogue I had wit...Hi Kelly,<br /><br />Glad you enjoyed the dialogue I had with Penny. It's good to take advantage of a negative and turn it into a positive. Or think about how we could take away a particular negative situation and take away its power.<br /><br />Oh yes, that was a time of extreme emotions. We knew that something didn't seem right with the first vet's diagnosis and that second opinion confirmed a very different outlook. What we experienced brought out the unity and the love that my son share with Penny and each other. Our animals, as you know, are cherished family members. <br /><br />Thank you, Kelly and I hope it got people who might feel overwhelmed with a negative situation, try and work it through and see if they can turn it into a positive. <br /><br />May you have a peaceful weekend, my friend.<br /><br />In peace and hope, your way, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-40884924020189940092012-10-26T12:33:26.913+00:002012-10-26T12:33:26.913+00:00That dog is brilliant, Gary, and a good friend. R...That dog is brilliant, Gary, and a good friend. Reframing challenges is so smart -- and so often illuminating. The dark can certainly over-ride the light at times. Good for you that the dog encouraged another perspective.<br /><br />"Hello!" from Minneapolis,<br /><br />PearlPearlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05261369905176088917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-87714412538127439772012-10-25T20:41:43.571+00:002012-10-25T20:41:43.571+00:00I enjoyed the little dialogue interaction you and ...I enjoyed the little dialogue interaction you and Penny had going on. It's true. I have thought, of times in the past, how a negative event was turned into a positive one.<br /><br />I'm really glad that you got a second opinion and all is well with Penny now. You're right about that, too. Because of that event, you and your son really bonded and showed how much your combined family, animal and humans, really means. In truth, though, I think most caring pet owners think of their pets as companions and friends. Sometimes it take reminders, big and small, to realize it. <br /><br />Sometimes... they, the negatives which you spoke of, aren't obvious until you think about them for awhile, either. If everyone took a few moments to contemplate past events in their lives, I bet they would come up with something.<br /><br />Great post. <br /><br />Take care, Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-38114319013971667562012-10-25T20:22:43.541+00:002012-10-25T20:22:43.541+00:00Hi Ray,
Thank you. It was nice to have Penny mak...Hi Ray,<br /><br />Thank you. It was nice to have Penny make me see another um, 'pawspective' :)<br /><br />Cheers, Ray.<br /><br />Peace be with you, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-68288645947863925522012-10-25T19:45:59.558+00:002012-10-25T19:45:59.558+00:00It is all about perspective and you and Penny did ...It is all about perspective and you and Penny did the right thing in talking it out. Good job Gary!raydenzel1https://www.blogger.com/profile/16212342091537737561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-51630470291803563172012-10-25T19:37:34.697+00:002012-10-25T19:37:34.697+00:00Hi Julie,
Thank you, Julie. I hope that my appro...Hi Julie,<br /><br />Thank you, Julie. I hope that my approach to situations can inspire others to see that they can seek alternatives and turn a negative into a positive. Penny is one clever dog! :) Her guidance is cherished.<br /><br />All the best to you, Julie.<br /><br />In peace and positive wishes, your way, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-75233131238763685362012-10-25T19:31:22.967+00:002012-10-25T19:31:22.967+00:00Hi Suzanne Bean,
I thank you most kindly for your...Hi Suzanne Bean,<br /><br />I thank you most kindly for your wise words. I know that my "inner critic", the negative chatter, tells lies. Through such open, transparent verbalisation, we can try to make sense and find that positive out of what could of overwhelmed us with negative energy. <br /><br />Your eloquent articulation is profound. We cannot allow the negative attention seeking aspects of our lives, permission to sabotage our right to a peaceful, fulfilling life. You are a marvel, Suzanne and I'm grateful to know you. You made a lot of sense :)<br /><br />I warmly accept that positive energy from the Universe and may such energy continue to immerse your soul. Thank you, Suzanne.<br /><br />Big hug from Leek, and no, I'm not meaning a hug from an onion! :)<br /><br />In peace and goodwill, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-3040553631678298712012-10-25T19:22:30.515+00:002012-10-25T19:22:30.515+00:00Hi Aaron,
I am most encouraged by what you have n...Hi Aaron,<br /><br />I am most encouraged by what you have noted. Please continue to share your candid and transparent verbalisation on your superbly written site.<br /><br />Indeed, I sure know that quote you refer to. And of course, this posting had that theme.<br /><br />Stay positive and keep smiling, my friend.<br /><br />Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-79378390721048382532012-10-25T08:40:17.576+00:002012-10-25T08:40:17.576+00:00I really admire you for overcoming so many obstacl...I really admire you for overcoming so many obstacles in your life. You are a true inspiration Gary, and Penny is a treasured Guide Dog! JulieEmpty Nest Insiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10074223969046687064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-14132294449042450092012-10-25T04:53:59.861+00:002012-10-25T04:53:59.861+00:00Gary, I am inspired by your strength and ability t...Gary, I am inspired by your strength and ability to look within and see what is going on. I do believe that living a positive life is very important, and this is what my intent is everyday. However, sometimes it is just important to feel and be honest and allow the emotions to have a voice. I find being truthful a very positive action. What I find effective when I feel my shadow wanting to destroy all the good that I have built is too just witness what my mind is saying to me. Be the observer for then we can just be with the negativity and we no longer fight it or push it away. All it wants is to have attention and when we give it time then it usually leaves quickly. I hope I'm making sense. Sending you all the best energy that the Universe has to offer.<br /> <br />Big hug from Victoria,<br />Suzanne Suzanne Beanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14766065508913925928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-54475891792095931532012-10-25T04:00:40.366+00:002012-10-25T04:00:40.366+00:00Inspirational, Gary! Thank you for this!
"Fr...Inspirational, Gary! Thank you for this!<br /><br />"From chaos comes clarity!"Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07719298522757166814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-53951602702253199732012-10-25T01:59:26.139+00:002012-10-25T01:59:26.139+00:00Hi The Golden Eagle,
I'm heartened by that. ...Hi The Golden Eagle,<br /><br />I'm heartened by that. Thank you.<br /><br />To move through and onwards from negative experiences and transform them into a profound positive experience, takes much inner fortitude. I am thankful I rediscovered me and managed to continue along the positive pathway. Thank you, my young friend. You and your inspiration are an integral part of a more hopeful future. <br /><br />In peace and fulfilling writing, your way, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-45074272412854327222012-10-25T01:54:58.014+00:002012-10-25T01:54:58.014+00:00Hi Jemi,
Penny to the rescue! :) She demonstrate...Hi Jemi,<br /><br />Penny to the rescue! :) She demonstrates a 'pawsitive pawspective':)<br /><br />Indeed, my friend, finding the positive out of a negative can be a most daunting task. The effort is certainly worth it. I shudder at the thought of the alternative. Thank you, Jemi. Take care, eh :) Sorry couldn't resist....<br /><br />Positive wishes, your way, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-54272025988032920312012-10-25T01:50:54.700+00:002012-10-25T01:50:54.700+00:00Hi Lily Tequila,
Thank you. And through those tr...Hi Lily Tequila,<br /><br />Thank you. And through those troubles, I do see a better reality. With the guidance of Penny, I do see that, upon reflection, my life is good and I can make it better. <br /><br />You are most kind and I do and Penny does, try to inspire. We are all in this together, sharing and caring, cheering each other along the road to a more peaceful, positive life. Oh, how we need neighbours that understand that causing distress to others is not the way forward. Thank you, Lily.<br /><br />With admiration and peaceful wishes, your way, Gary xxklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-76007408940594737122012-10-25T01:44:33.934+00:002012-10-25T01:44:33.934+00:00Hi Jai,
Indeed, my good friend, finding that posi...Hi Jai,<br /><br />Indeed, my good friend, finding that positive aspect to a negative situation, takes much inner resolve and commitment. There was many a time when I almost gave up. Then I remembered all that is near and dear to me. A most positive catalyst to keep the better journey going. <br /><br />It can be most difficult and daunting to seek the positives out of negatives. Yet you have found that the other side fills your heart with a renewed sense of wonder for life. Thank you, Jai.<br /><br />With kind and positive wishes, your way, Garyklahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4219984917795758890.post-27544124454013007242012-10-25T01:37:10.360+00:002012-10-25T01:37:10.360+00:00Hi Suzanne,
I know that trying to maintain positi...Hi Suzanne,<br /><br />I know that trying to maintain positivity can be darned hard work. Of course, that other place is a place I do not ever wish to visit again. Penny's positive attitude has been a cause of much joy. I thank you, Suzanne, for your encouraging and inspiring comment. The journey on the road to happiness will have the occasional pothole. Each time, we can get out of the pothole and keep moving on. I am heartened and touched by such support by you, by all within the great blogging community. Thank you, Suzanne.<br /><br />With respect and kind wishes, your way, Gary klahaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613505424843475639noreply@blogger.com